Back In the Flow

Last year for my birthday, my best friend gave me the book Perfectly Imperfect by Byron Baptiste. It’s not one that I read straight through, but I’ll pick it up here and there when I need inspiration. The other night I read about being in ‘the flow’. We can be in the flow of life just like we can be in the flow of yoga. Things feel graceful and effortless when they are moving along the way we’d like. Body, mind, and energy is harmonious.

But we know the next day, in life or our practice, we can hit a wall or plateau. You have flow in your practice when you hit a wall and don’t react with self-hate or dive into a shame spiral. You trust that you are still moving forward (even if slowly) and things will pick up again. Simply being in the process as it is, is being in flow. Sometimes you hit a wall for long time, other times not. On or off the mat, you stay the course knowing it’s part of the flow. You have flow in your practice when you can accept breaks in tempo or achievement and use the slowdowns as learning opportunities.

I had that opportunity this week with my students. Towards the end of Tuesday’s class, I completely blanked and forgot a piece of the pose sequence on the second side. I honestly almost let it derail my teaching right then, which never happens. But my amazing students chimed in and cued for where we needed to go for the next few poses. They’re the best. I played it off, but I was embarrassed and immediately started that shame spiral of questioning if I was even a good teacher, what am I doing here, you know how that goes… My flow was slowing down.

But throughout the day I came back to what I read earlier this week. Being in the flow doesn’t mean doing everything “perfectly” all the time. It means learning from your challenges and obstacles and moving forward with grace and confidence. So I did just that. I intentionally created a class today that had some complex breath to movement cues and I practiced my instructions out loud. The class was physically challenging and I really had to pay attention to what I was saying as I guided my students through. But I didn’t make any mistakes in my instruction and I felt good about myself as a teacher again.

That’s what yoga is about, taking what we learn on the mat and applying it to everyday life. In this case I was able to practice self-love after hitting an obstacle. I learned from it and my students had a good class. I am back in my flow.

Morgan’s Musings on Manifesting, Meditation, and Mindfulness- Part 2

Quite simply, I would not have the quality of life that I do without meditation. It keeps me focused and grounded and at the end, I always know the right thing to do (whether or not I do the right thing or not  is a something I’ll cover in Mindfulness). I think people often have the wrong idea of meditation. They think they need to be sitting with their ankles on their hips, on top of a mountain somewhere, chanting to God. Well, for some people that does the trick, but for me, climbing to the top of Mt. Rose every day doesn’t sound fun. I also don’t understand chanting and I don’t believe in God. But I do believe in my Higher Power (HP) who I call The Universe. For the focus of this blog I won’t dive too deep into higher powers, I do think a little explanation is needed though so you can understand how I meditate.

Neil deGrasse Tyson said, “Not only are we in the Universe, the Universe is in us. I don’t know of any deeper spiritual feeling than what that brings upon me.” That is pretty much the basis of my belief in my HP, the Universe. I pray/meditate/ask/talk to the Universe and it responds through me, then I act upon whatever I’ve received. Here is where you might be thinking, WTF is she talking about. Remember my flood story from the part 1 of this blog? The man prayed to God to save him and God sent boats. Now God isn’t going to physically pick this man up and place him in a boat. That’s levitation and this is not Harry Potter World. God was answering his prayers by sending boats, it was up to that man to act on his own to save himself. You might still be confused, here is a real life example. Right now I’m manifesting making the switch to teaching yoga and personal training fulltime. When I pray/meditate- Preditate? Medipray?- first thing in the morning, I thank my HP for everything coming my way in terms of my intentions and goals. I ask for the motivation, tenacity, and ambition. I pray that I might be an inspiration to someone today to live a better life. I pray for those struggling and ask for my HP to guide the thoughts that I think, the words that I say, and the actions that I do. I pray that I may be of service to my fellows.

So now you know how I meditate, I’m sure you want some tips on how you can do that too; especially if you’re not sold on the idea of a HP yet. Fair enough. But before we learn how to meditate, let’s consider why we meditate. Meditation teaches you how to respond in a constructive way, rather than impulsively react. It’s organized around the concept that you are naturally whole, you are capable of well-being, and your thoughts are messengers. That awareness is key. Along with awareness as a key concept of meditation, so is receiving and using every opportunity as a learning experience. Receiving is your ability to accept and respond gracefully to every experience as opposed to having a dismissive, reactive, f*ck you attitude. Receiving and welcoming keeps you connected to the experience instead of lashing out with knee-jerk reactions. Receiving allows you to step back, take the moment in, and gain perspective. In this moment you are more than the experience, you are aware of your awareness. When you are aware that you are aware, the emphasis now becomes on what you are aware of. Make sense? Try this, say hello to yourself in your head. You “heard” that, you recognize that thought. You are aware of your awareness. You are awareness. And once you are awareness, you become mindful of judgment, resisting, refusing, and trying to change situations. How often has that happened to you, your thoughts are running wild in your head how much you dislike someone. You replay everything they’ve ever done or said that hasn’t set well with you. Then suddenly you catch yourself and think, ‘wow I’m being really bitchy right now’. That is you becoming aware. You are awareness. And you learned this from the focus you created in your meditation.

Sometimes you don’t want to receive “negative” emotions though. Let’s call them ‘scratchy’. Sometimes you just want to feel irritated or mad. That’s natural. Over time you’ll learn to welcome and receive these scratchy feelings uncomfortable as it may be. Think of the scratchy feelings as a messenger to help you live a better life. By receiving them you’ll learn there are healthier ways to live in that moment instead of what you’re currently doing. The scratchy feelings are your body’s way of getting your attention; they are disharmonies way of getting your attention to take action and reconsider what you could be doing instead to be happy and healthy.

Still with me? If so, now let’s talk about to how to meditate. You might say, Morgs I don’t know about that HP thing and I don’t understand awareness. Or maybe you think, this sounds like a lot, I don’t have time. You might even be thinking, ‘my thoughts run wild, there’s no way I can slow them down’. My answers to those, do you want to feel more connected to life around you? Do you want to be a part of this life on a deeper and more meaningful level? Do you have 5 minutes to yourself every day? Can you make 5 minutes to yourself every day? Even in the bathroom? If your answer to all those questions is no, then maybe meditating isn’t for you yet. And that’s ok. But if you think there is something out there bigger than you, even if you don’t know what it is, and you can make 5 minutes for yourself- yes even in the bathroom- then you are ready to meditate.

The purpose of meditation is to create focus and become aware. It is about focusing your attention on your experience. The reason for focus: it allows you to be here now. Your only reality is This Moment, right here, right now. Peace is found in such awareness. First you must find quiet. A space free from distraction where you can tune out any external stimuli. This might be in bed in the morning pretending to still be asleep. It might be in the bathroom. I meditate in the morning in my car before I head off to teach yoga. The radio is off and I simply start talking to my HP, an intentional conversation. I’m a master at multi-tasking, so to sit still like this and focus on nothing but this conversation takes a lot of focus for me.

An exercise to get you started, once you’ve found your quiet place, sit in a comfortable position with your eyes closed (less glittery squirrels to catch your attention that way) and try to focus on something else other than your thoughts. Intentionally clear your mind, try to disengage from all the thoughts that are used to running rampant in your head. In yoga, we call that the ‘monkey mind’. As a monkey jumps from tree to tree, our thoughts come in one after another. So basically, stop thinking. If a thought comes into your mind (because that’s what the mind is for, it’s human nature), acknowledge it and let it go. Imagine you place the thought on a cloud and watch it float by. It takes effort and patience. The more you practice dis-attaching from your thoughts, the easier it becomes, until it’s effortless. You can listen for sounds around you and identify them: that is a car going by, that is the clock ticking, that is the faucet dripping. Suddenly you aren’t thinking anymore about picking kids up from cheerleading and football or dinner you need to make, you are simply listening and your mind is still.

Another meditation exercise is counting your breaths. I like to use the square breathing technique- all through your nose, inhale to a count of 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold at the bottom for 4. It might take some getting used to; it’s not uncommon to feel like you’re going to suffocate holding at the bottom of the exhale. You get used to it, I promise, and it doesn’t feel so panicky. Repeat that a 5-7 times then let your breath return to normal.

You might also try a mantra. On the inhale you think to yourself ‘I am’ on the exhale consider what you are. I am… love. I am… patient. I am… forgiving. You can think about things you want to be as well to set an intention of something as well as a way to manifest it in your life.

Meditation is a journey and the fact that you’ve even been considering it means you’re on the right track. Be gentle with yourself. Be patient, curious, and persistent. Know that this awareness and focus is possible when you nourish your practice and give it a chance.

Morgan’s Musings on Manifesting, Meditation, and Mindfulness- Part 1

I’ve been getting some questions lately on Manifesting, Meditation, and Mindfulness. People want to know how to use those concepts, collectively or individually, in their own life. I get it. Those three M words, Manifesting, Meditation, Mindfulness, can seem confusing if you don’t understand what they are. They seem even more confusing when you hear and witness other people using them. You understand they are useful, but you don’t know how to go about using them in your own life. So I’ve decided to do a 3-part blog series, each blog exploring a different M. Keep in mind, this M trifecta is not an exact science. There are studies and research to show they work, but take everything with a grain of salt. What I’m writing about is how I apply them in my life and what has worked for me. it may very well work differently for you. This time around I’m going to start with Manifesting.

For me, the concept of manifesting can be summed up in this story: The town is flooding. A man is standing on his roof, the rest of his house is underwater. The water is up to his feet and he starts to pray, “Please God, please save me from this flood.” Well no sooner did he say ‘amen’ that a group of people paddle up in a canoe. “Hey Pal, hop in! There’s room!” “No thanks!” said the man, “God will save me.” “Suit yourself,” said the people, and they paddled off.

Some time went by, it was still pouring rain and the water was up to the man’s knees. A large boat floated by. “Hop in Pal, there’s room!” the people on the boat cried. “No thanks!” said the man, “God will save me.” “Suit yourself,” said the people, and the boat floated away.

The rain was coming down even heavier now and the water was up to the man’s neck. Suddenly a basket dropped down from a helicopter. “Hey Pal, hop in! We will save you!” said the people in the helicopter. “No thanks!” said the man, “God will save me.” “Suit yourself,” said the people, and the helicopter flew away.

Well the man drowned and went to Heaven. When he got there he asked God, “God, why didn’t you save me? I prayed and asked you to save me and I still died.” “I did try to save you,” God replied. “I tried to save you three times, I sent a canoe, a boat, and a helicopter!”

That’s how manifesting works to me, you tell the Universe what it is that you want. (I try to keep it pretty basic, not too many specifics. The more to try to control outcome, the less you will recognize when the manifestation comes into fruition.) After you ask, sit back and let the Universe do the rest. That’s not to say though that you don’t need to work for it. Quite the opposite in fact. You need to work really hard and put a lot of energy and attention into what it is you want. It’s your life right, you can’t expect everything to be done for you. If you really want something, you need to do the leg work. But the Universe is there in the background, pulling the strings, moving mountains, planning the moves in the chess game of your life, to make sure that what you want happens. That’s your first step to manifesting, ask for it. Tell the Universe what it is that you want and the Universe will immediately start conspiring on your behalf to make it happen. I like to say, everything is within your reach, you just need to reach for it.

Here is the story of how I manifested moving to Reno, Nevada: After I graduated college in 2010 I worked for the Boy Scouts of America near Chicago. The way the organization works is after 3 years, if you’re promoted, you have the option to move anywhere in the country you want as long as they have a position open for you to be promoted into. I had been going to Burning Man for a few years at this point and it completely changed my life. I had my heart set on moving to Colorado so I could be a little free-spirit hippy. Well my three year anniversary rolled around and none of the Colorado councils had any positions open for me to move into. I was disappointed, but at this point I had an understanding of how manifesting worked. I knew that the Universe had something better in store for me and if I continued to be disappointed about Colorado, I might miss this better thing coming. About two weeks later my boss called me. “The Boy Scout council in Reno called about you. Would you be interested in moving to Nevada?” Being closer to Burning Man and the amazing friends that I already had in Reno who I met at Burning Man two years prior? Yes please and thank you! (That’s right. The Universe had been planning this for me since 2012 when my sister and I met the craziest/weirdest/funnest/best group of people on the Playa. Who happened to be from Reno. And we happened to keep in touch with them over the next two years…) As they say, the rest is history. My sister and I moved to Reno where we started to build our lives. Within 3 months of living there I met the man who would become my fiancé. We are engaged to be married this summer. Awesome right? Thank you Universe.

Consider something big you want in your life right now that hasn’t happened yet. Now ask for it. Yes, just ask. Don’t be fearful, you are not limited by logic or perceived constraints.  Next, take a moment to close your eyes and feel what you want. Imagine what it will feel like when this thing/moment/event presents itself to you. Say thank you in advance, then sit back and trust that it’s going to happen. In the meantime, get out there and start doing the ground work. Anything you want the Universe to do for you is something you can start working on today, on your own, to make the process happen even quicker (if you’re in a hurry).

Currently I am manifesting making the switch from my full time job at a non-profit to teaching yoga/personal training/ fitness/health/wellness full time. I practice and teach yoga every day, I talk to people about my goals, and I work on acquiring more certifications to make myself even more marketable. Whatever it is you want, work on it a little bit every day. That’s the trick, you must put energy into this thing you that you want. You must believe. If you imagine it, you can have it. (I am so full of these little mantras.) You must visualize and life your life like this thing you want has actually happened.

But Morgan, you say, I’ve been working really hard, for a long time on this thing I want and nothing is happening. I get it. Sometimes it can feel like you’re spinning your wheels. You’re doing the legwork so to speak, but whatever it is you want isn’t happening (yet). You might start to doubt, you might become frustrated and question the process. Stop it right there. You needn’t worry, there is time. All the time in the world in fact. There is no dream you cannot manifest, there is no challenge you can’t crush. There is no point in spending one more second of your already awesome life thinking anything of the contrary. When you doubt the Universe, you are actually saying you don’t trust the plan. You don’t even know what the behind the scenes plan is, yet you don’t trust it. By doing that you are taking energy out of moving forward and you’re moving yourself backwards. Don’t become the reason you don’t succeed. The Universe knows what it’s doing, I promise. Sometimes it happens quickly, other times not so much. You might not understand, but everything is always playing to the greater good. Things will continue to get better and you will become the person you’ve always dreamed. There is time, you are in no rush. You must always believe and know that your success is inevitable. Ok?

Finally, while you’re waiting for this thing to show up in your life, continue to say thank you. Say thank you for that beautiful sunset, thank you for the convenient parking spot, thank you for the $1.00 you found on the ground. The more you give thanks the more the Universe will put in your life to be thankful for.

So that’s it. That’s how you live the life of your dream. Easy peasy! That being said, if you are looking for private yoga, group yoga, personal training at your home or in the gym, let me know. Let me help you manifest better health in your life.

1144 Days

I always thought I was just a nice person who drank a lot. Back in high school if I got too drunk it was laughed at because that was part of being young and rebellious. In college if I got too drunk it wasn’t a big deal because I was in a sorority and drinking was part of our social environment. I was always friends with people who liked to drink and party just as much as I did. However, unlike my friends, I never quite got the hang of drinking and since the beginning of my drinking days at 16, I would always get waaay more intoxicated than everyone else. I still remember being at a party and the look on a classmate’s face when I told her I blacked out every single time I drank. We were seniors in high school. I was 17.

A “normal” drinker knows their limits. They can tell when they’ve had too much and they know what it takes to put them over the edge. A “normal” drinker can take alcohol or leave it and they are responsible about it. Taking a Gatorade bottle full of mixed vodka to the library or the gym or to class just because it’s “sneaky” and therefore “cool” is not normal. I missed out on a lot in college because I was too drunk to make it out to the event. Or I would blackout halfway through the event and have no recollection of the evening. Besides a few stories in my mind that particularly stand out, I made it through my drinking days in college relatively unscathed. I graduated with a 3.7 GPA and an internship with Walt Disney World.

The internship lasted less than 3 months, I was fired for being drunk on the job. I moved back to Chicago where I landed an amazing job doing fundraising and recruitment for a non-profit. Over the next couple of years things went great professionally at least. I met my numbers and my volunteers adored me. There were a handful of times though that my boss sent me home for smelling like booze and a couple of times where I blew off meetings or appointments because I was drinking, drunk, or hungover.

So while work was, for the most part, great, in my personal life my level of drinking was becoming serious. I was drinking daily, mostly by myself at home. I had gained a lot of weight and I didn’t really care about social activities like I once had. My sister and mom had a few talks with me over the years about my drinking habits and how they were concerned for me, but the talks didn’t sink in. I didn’t think that my drinking affected them because it was my choice and I wasn’t hurting anyone. I was blind to the disappointment and pain that I was causing people as a result of my actions while drunk. More accurately my actions not taken because I was already blacked out/passed out. I was ruining relationships with boyfriends, my best friends, and family members. All I could think about was drinking and as long as I had that, my life was more interesting and full.

Back tracking a little bit, I had a normal childhood. There were boating vacations to the lake every summer, summer camps, I had a cell phone. Basically what I’m trying to say is that I don’t come from a rough background, my life was not “hard”. But I still felt empty and that’s why I drank. I was bored and discontent with my life and drinking was a way to pass the time and make life seem more exciting. I don’t know how drinking to the point of blackout (almost daily), eating and watching movies that I would pass out during, or having whole conversations on the phone that I wouldn’t remember, makes life seem more interesting, but it did.

Then Friday, December 13, 2013 I hit my bottom. I won’t go into the story here (although I am happy to share it with anyone over a plate of nachos), but that Saturday morning I “came to” and knew that things weren’t right. Whatever had happened the night before could not be fixed with an apology and promise to buy the next handle of vodka. Much to the utter disbelief and disgust of everyone close to me who knew was happened that Friday, I kept drinking for the rest of the weekend. I knew in my heart that when the weekend was over my drinking days were as well.

My last drink of alcohol was December 15th, 2013. That Monday the 16th, at 25 years old, I went to my first AA meeting and have been sober ever since. Fast forward to today (937 days sober), I am a sober alcoholic and ecstatic with the life I live. I recognize my Higher Power as The Universe and I give thanks every day to my HP that I’m an alcoholic and for blessing me with this life and everything yet to come. Getting sober was scary at first. In social situations I didn’t know how to act, what would I say? Who would I talk to? Who am I now as a person without the liquid courage of a cocktail (or 9)? But through prayer and meditation it gets easier and then one day you realize it’s not an issue anymore and you are living a life better than you could have imagined.

Burning Man 2014 was an eye opening experience. It was my 4th burn and at the time I was 8 months sober. It had the potential to be overwhelming, but I brought my 24 hour chip with me, kept my journal with me at all times (journaling is a huge part of my sobriety toolbox), and I made it a point to find all of the sober camps in case I felt overwhelmed.  At first I was outside my comfort zone A LOT, but just like how I’m comfortable in my own skin in life now, it was the same way at Burning Man. That was one of my most notable burns because I remembered more of it and everything that I did was based on me making the conscience decision, not the booze-induced judgement. The experiences meant more because I could soak it all in.

If you work the 12 Steps (and really work them), you will find that you don’t move on to the next phase of your recovery until you’re totally ready. With your sponsor, you work on building a working relationship with your Higher Power (whether it be God or like me, The Universe), learn how to live at peace with yourself, then figure out how to live a meaningful life with others and continue a program of recovery every day, for the rest of your life. There are these statements in AA called ‘The Promises’ which basically outline how your life is going to get better. They include knowing a new freedom and happiness, feelings of uselessness and self-pity will disappear, and fear of people and economic insecurity will leave us. And the promises do come true, they materialize if you work for them.

As far as my yoga practice and how that is connected, my yoga journey began at the same time I got sober because I used my practice as a way to connect with my Higher Power. The connection I felt to my HP through my moving meditation helped release me from the turmoil going on inside my brain as I came to terms with my alcoholism. As I progressed in my initial recovery, I progressed in my practice as well. The week that I started AA was when I decided to take my first class. As I celebrated 90 days, I achieved Crow pose. As I reached 5 months, I accomplished my head stand. December 2015 I celebrated 2 years sober. I also started my 200-hour yoga teacher training so that I could get my certification and use yoga to help other alcoholics achieve sobriety.  To this day, I sit and meditate and move and mediate through my yoga practice every day. For me the two go hand in hand because in both sitting mediation and practicing yoga as a moving mediation, my mind is clear.
As I write this I am 1144 days sober. Together, sobriety and yoga saved my life. Life is a beautiful journey and I’m blessed to be able to experience it the way I do.

Today, I am One with my Higher Power, and I am at peace with myself.

Cheers to the good life.

Morgan

https://bendyoga.org/

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Special Projects

A couple years ago I was getting coffee with a friend and he asked me what projects I was working on. Outside of work, what was I doing with my time? At the time I didn’t have a good answer and it got me thinking: from now on I will always have a project. It didn’t always need to be something huge, maybe it was starting (and finishing) a new book or trying a new recipe (that’s a big one considering I cook a “real” meal maybe 4 times a year.) What I didn’t realize at the time was that by not having a project, it meant I didn’t have a vision. I didn’t have an idea or clear picture what I wanted to do with my energy, and that’s not acceptable. Having a vision is important because it gives your existence a purpose. We are only on this planet for such a short time, we should use it wisely.

So consider this, what is your project? What is your vision? Make it BIG. Make it HUGE. The bigger the better. It’s supposed to be so big that it’s almost unbelievable. And what will it take for you to get there right now? In the beginning when you’re setting out on a new journey towards a new, amazing goal, it’s easy to get frustrated with the preliminary steps. You’re so excited and eager and anxious to reach the end point, the brilliant dream that inspired you, that the preliminary steps just seem like they’re taking up too much time. This is natural. If the dream wasn’t so stunning, it wouldn’t be worth dreaming.

So what’s my vision right now? Oh my gosh I have so many. I’ll keep it yoga-pose related. I am working on Adho Mukha Vrksasana, aka Handstand. I have been working on it for over a year now and while some days it doesn’t feel like I am making any progress, I know I am. I practice my handstand every single day for at least 10 minutes, and even if I don’t hold it for very long that day, or some days I don’t even get legs in the air at all, I know that I am at least stronger now than I was before I tried.

As you keep grinding along on your project, know the “small victories” that that are the baby steps of accomplishing your goal (practicing kicking up, reading a few pages of your book, running a mile, etc.)  are actually huge victories in the overall big picture (handstand, finishing that book you’ve been putting off forever, running a 5k or marathon, etc.). For every mortal step you take here, a huge leap, cartwheel, dance party has taken place in time and space, advancing you forward more than you’ll ever know. And the best way to finish this project? Get started on it. No more procrastinating, no more excuses or if/thens (if Sarah calls me to go to kickboxing with her, then I’ll go), that’s lame. Get up, get out, and just START DOING IT. Wherever you are, any progress is good. You’ll finish your project, achieve your goal, just in time to start your next one

Keep Bending,

Morgan

@keep_bending

Another Internet Blog About Goals

There are a million blogs and articles out there about goals. About why you should set them. And how you can keep them. And what to do if you do if you set so many goals that you forget what they are. Well this is another blog post about just that, but my take on it.

The past 4 months I have been studying to earn my personal trainers certification through the American Council on Exercise (ACE). The content is intense, they recommend studying 10-15 hours a week and I definitely do that if not more. There is an outlined syllabus with 18 sections and each section is broken down even further to one or more lessons. Each lesson has chapters you have to read, videos to watch, and quizzes to take. Oh and flashcards. Don’t forget the flashcards! I complete all that, review as much as necessary, then schedule to take the certification course. They recommend taking the test 4 months from when you start the program so the information stays fresh. I am on track to finish studying the material this week (!), I’ll spend all of February reviewing and take the test early March before we go to Mexico. Like I said, this material is super intense. There is more to personal training than just counting out reps and getting paid to wear yoga pants to work. For example, the chapters I read earlier were Exercise Physiology, Fundamentals of Applied Kinesiology, Physiology of Training, etc. As someone who majored in marketing in college because it seemed like “the easiest” major, learning about biology like this does not come naturally. But it’s fascinating! The human body is so amazing and mysterious and strong that I just can’t take it in fast enough. The chapter on nutrition was over 50 pages (front and back mind you) and I read it in 2 days because I couldn’t put it down. I had food strewn out all over our kitchen counters comparing the labels to what I was learning. I already know my next non-yoga certification is going to be in nutrition of some sort. Oh! To further deepen my studying, I try to incorporate saying 3 new muscles and bones a week into my yoga classes so I have a better understanding of what the body is doing. But I digress. This program is intended for the super committed, motivated, self-starter and even though I don’t have a biology background, being intrinsically motivated is in my DNA.

Recently I started teaching yoga at a brand new recovery gym, Fizio, that just opened up across the street. (Funny story how that happened, I had been watching construction happening on the building all summer but didn’t know what it was going to be. One day a sign went up saying that it was going to be a gym. Me, being the inquisitive (ok let’s be real. Nosy. I was being nosy.)  person that I am, started rattling on the doors and peering in the windows, trying to find a way to get in so I could talk to someone. A man quickly came around the corner, like anyone would who sees someone trying to break into his building. Long story short, he and his wife were the owners and after a few weeks of getting to know each other they invited me to their staff to teach yoga. They also asked me if I had ever considered getting my personal training certification because they would love to bring me on in that capacity down the road soon too. They suggested to go through ACE and “the rest is history”. That was back in September 2016.

Up until this point I knew I wanted to do something with fitness/yoga/wellness/life coaching/etc. but wasn’t sure what. I had kind of been wandering aimlessly. I knew I wanted to teach yoga full time, but that by itself isn’t super realistic yet. Now, thanks to this amazing couple who saw something in me and recognized I had the qualities of someone who would make a successful personal trainer, I finally had a clear goal and idea what I wanted to do with my life professionally. They have inspired me and encouraged me to build myself up and increase my value as a human. I have a clear goal and vision, one that is defined and realistic. Short term- in March 2017 I am going to pass my certification to become a Certified Personal Trainer. Long term- by December 2017 I will be doing yoga/fitness/wellness/health/nutrition/life-coaching full time. And in the meantime, I am going to start getting certifications in as many of those other categories as possible.

#BuildAnEdge

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We had our first staff meeting at Fizio the other night where the owners shared their vision statement with us and brought us all up to speed on the ‘why’ behind the Fizio brand. The photo is a bit blurry, but the message is clear. Set a goal, Build an Edge.

I feel so fortunate to teach at a gym that sets, encourages, and embraces our aspirations and ambitions. The owners, staff, and coaches at Fizio all live with the mindset to continually build themselves up and keep working towards the greatest version of themselves. The people we surround ourselves with either raise or lower our standards. We become like our friends and they help us to become the best versions of ourselves. These are just those kinds of people and I know 100% they will continue to support me on my professional fitness journey.

I had a fun thought the other day. In the beginning when you’re setting out on a new journey towards a new, amazing goal, it’s easy to get frustrated with the preliminary steps. You’re so excited and eager and anxious to reach the end point, the brilliant dream that inspired you, that the preliminary steps just seem like they’re taking up too much time. This is natural. If the dream wasn’t so stunning, it wouldn’t be worth dreaming. Know that the “small victories” that that are the baby steps of accomplishing your goal, are actually huge victories in the overall big picture. For every step you take on Earth, a huge leap, cartwheel, dance party has taken place in time and space, advancing you forward more than you’ll ever know.

Setting goals gives you long-term vision and short-term motivation so that you can make the very most out of your life. Goal setting is the first step in successful goal achievement. It marks your first point toward success. It’s when you switch from a passive state to being actively involved in your life. Because this life is so, so good.